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Links to Articles about Healthy Sex and Relationships

Here are links to informative articles about relationships and sexuality. I'll add to them as I find new ones.


Happy New Year! Ideas for creating a sense of purpose in your life:

https://www.bluezones.com/2015/12/the-power-of-purpose-9-questions-for-richard-leider/


What our fantasies mean:

https://www.thecut.com/2020/12/can-we-change-what-we-fantasize-about.html

When you cheat on your partner:

https://www.cnn.com/2019/02/26/health/cheating-partner-sex-kerner/index.html​

What to do if you think your child may be LGBTQ:

https://www.today.com/parents/i-think-my-child-may-be-gay-6-things-parents-t164428

Esther Perel on how and why you keep having the same fight with your partner/ and what to do differently:

https://www.cosmopolitan.com/sex-love/a60435/fix-the-fights-youre-sick-of-having/

The Kinsey Sexuality Scale in 2019

https://www.refinery29.com/en-us/what-is-kinsey-scale-test

Free mindfulness apps:

https://us17.campaign-archive.com/?u=62a1db74d9bc2cb70470718ab&id=63d73da631&e=3e55adf49f

How - and why - to keep your sex life alive in a long term relationship:

https://www.nbcnews.com/better/pop-culture/what-maintenance-sex-it-may-help-strengthen-your-marriage-ncna956216

Erectile Dysfunction or performance anxiety? The Truth Behind a Modern Malaise:

https://www.theguardian.com/lifeandstyle/2018/oct/18/erectile-dysfunction-performance-anxiety-truth-modern-malaise

Erectile Dysfunction more common in younger men:

https://www.cosmopolitan.com/sex-love/a26786866/erectile-dysfunction-in-young-men/

Gottman research shows the key to a happy marriage is kindness:

https://www.theatlantic.com/health/archive/2014/06/happily-ever-after/372573/

Questions to ask each other about what turns you on/off:

https://www.bustle.com/p/how-do-i-improve-my-sex-life-16-questions-to-ask-your-partner-before-getting-hot-heavy-10251946

What research about fantasy tells us:

https://goop.com/wellness/sexual-health/how-the-science-of-sexual-desire-can-improve-your-sex-life/?ref=newsletter

The National Coalition for Sexual Health shares five steps to good sexual health: https://www.fiveactionsteps.org/

Sexual health myths:

https://www.huffingtonpost.com/entry/myth-about-sexual-health_us_5b0d6358e4b0568a880eda2d

More about vaginas:

https://www.huffingtonpost.com/entry/what-men-need-to-know-about-vaginas_us_57608cc2e4b05e4be860231c

Relationship insight:

https://estherperel.com/blog/why-modern-love-is-so-damn-hard

Ideas for people considering polyamory:

https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/the-polyamorists-next-door/201601/when-your-partner-wants-non-monogamy-and-you-don-t

How to talk with kids about porn:

https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/sexual-intelligence/201610/kids-need-porn-literacy

You can learn to be a great lover:

http://ottawacitizen.com/news/local-news/extraordinary-sex-for-boomers-great-lovers-are-made-not-born-expert-says

How to talk about what you like in bed

https://tonic.vice.com/en_us/article/mbk4z8/exactly-how-to-tell-your-partner-what-you-want-in-bed

Facts about how circumcision affects your sex life

https://www.menshealth.com/health/a21287604/circumcision-sex-penises/